Why is America so fucked up?

Never been to America in the flesh. Watched alot of movies and videos and documentaries done in America but that doesn’t tell much. I have some family in America but I personally don’t correspond with them so not much can hear from them about America. But I have heard much about America. The founding fathers; slavery; black freedom fighters; the opportunities in America; the labourous labor to earn money; the addiction of money money money money; etc.

What I want to talk about now is one section of American culture that seem to me is fucked up. America is all around fucked up. Such as love too much war; the theft of indian land. But what I want to talk about is the gender war in America. Its a cold war. Men hating on women. Women hating on men. Who wins?

So I looked back at the idea of licking pussy. Back in the days; American men did not support it. But I am betting that women were always required to suck dick! In jamaica whether it is licking pussy or dick; both are considered demeening. Even in our modern culture with alot of girls sucking dick; there is still the notion that your personal woman should never suck dick. Its simply nasty. So I can imagine that women in America despised the fact that they were the only ones to have to bow; and now that they have equal rights; men should have to pay. And I dont think equal rights and justice is delussional. Black people have fought and are still fighting for equal rights, justice and respect. Women are human beings and not just a tube for creating babies. They deserve equal rights; justice and respect. That is something that the American culture just doesnt feel women should get. They think women; should be subservient and obedient. Imagine telling a grown ass woman she should be obedient. you think she is a fucking child.

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Its been a concern for me since I start hearing about this alpha culture; with videos of men hating on woman and pointing out everything wrong with modern women. Such videos never ever say anything good about the woman’s point of view. And they are wishing that they could go back to the good old days when women were submissive. This is something that truely hearts my heart. I love my mother. I am not the biggest fan of my father. My mother nurtured me; loved me; kept things between me and her; was happy for me when I had my first girl; and was an independent, strong and bad fucking woman that defended herself to the max. I don’t take lightly the disrespect of my mother. And I dont kindly to the imlication that my mother should be obedient and subservient to a man; especially just for the fact that she is a woman! Furthermore; if I get a daughter; I wouldnt take well to a guy that believes he deserves to be God over her. Fuck anything the Bible may or may not have said about the topic. Bible is a book written by men; edited by white men. No proof it was inspired by God.

Oh man! I was now on the side of the alpha team. Women in America are evil; and only the alpha males can save men now. But then I slept and woke up; no pun intended; I came to the actual end of the rabbit hole! Hmm. In Jamaica we have 6 male national heros; and 1 heroine. We have mostly male prime ministers; but had 1 female prime minister; and females continue to play a pivotal role in our politics. America on the other hand has a bunch of fore fathers; eg Abraham Lincoln and George Washingston. But no fore mother. It has dozens of presidents; even a black president; but no female president. And alot of Americans say they dont think women should ever be president. They believe a woman can be a big executive; but just not president of the “free world”. Sounds like garbage to me because it cant be a free world if women are not free to be president. It’s not a free world if men and free to be the masters of women; and women have to be subservient to men. If you are subservient; how the fuck are you free?

In the end I discovered Jamaican culture and American culture is different. American culture is toxic. You cant just disrespect 50% of your population and expect things to be well. And Pastor Jennings that want to come to Jamaica and preach his fuckery can keep it in America.

Hi everybody! I have been looking at posts on narcs and narc abuse on here and if has really helped me out a lot. I am currently struggling with my situation and need some advice/support. I met a narc last year, everything seemed to good to be true. Love bombing, always texting calling and taking me on dates. Everything changed when someone warned me about him out in public in front of him and who he is. This caused a conflict with us and the love bombing seized. he would tell me that everything is okay and i can come and talk. He would set a time limit on me and kick me out after that. he would then text me like everything was fine and we hung out again and after that he completely ghosted me for one week. He came back and texted me a week later laughing about the ghosting and acting like nothing had happened. he continued to text me ( not like in the beginning) make plans with me, then on the day of the plans he would just ghost me. One day he would act interested the next silence. i contacted him a month later and he acted like nothing happened. He was on a vacation and sent me a picture of another woman ( someone he allegedly met on the trip) to strike a reaction but i never gave him one. After the trip he came to my place and was extremely rude, accusing me of going on dates with a bunch of men. The next day he accused me of being an alcoholic and that he wanted nothing to do with me but said well maybe we can be "friends" then ghosted me i assumed at this point it was over and i would never hear from him again. He contacted me on the holiday a month later acting like everything was great. We ended up hanging out a month or so later and when we hung out it went well, i thought things were going in the right direction. after we hung out.. silence. I would try to text him and if he replied it would be very short then he just stopped replying. He ghosted me for almost three months. I thought he was done this time and of course he popped up again like nothing happened. At this point i was getting sick of if so i questioned him as to why he dissapeared and always does this. Of course he had some sob story about a injury and family member dying of cancer. I felt pity for him and he gave me an apology.. so i took him back stupidly. things seemed to be going smooth for a couple months, of course until his family member died and his injury got better he never contacted me and was distant. Menawhile, i was there for him during the difficult time for him. He lied to me about the funeral and never wanted to chat. I was chasing him and he would always claim nothing was wrong but when i said i thought he used me when he was down he could not handle it and would always tell me he didnt care and to go away. I would get so upset i would try texting him to work it out he would barelt respond and if he did he would not be nice about it. we did hang out a couple times after that, he would ignore me after. One day i was like hey i think you are seeing someone else, and i was like well ixam seeing someone so no problem if you are he said " buy bye good luck with your new guy stop contacting me" i was devastated and tried to get into contact with him for weeks then i just gave up and accepted it was over. He ended up contacting me a month later acting like everything was fine. He wanted to go out and have drinks i told him i would. He and i both seemed to have a great time. He ends up ignoring me again. I kept texting him trying to figure out what was wrong. He kept saying everything was fine and i said ok can we hang out again? He said maybe i was like why? He just kept saying maybe … our last conversation we had… i said what is wrong ? He said nothing is wrong everything is fine. I asked him why he keeps saying maybe. He said " maybe but i dont want to see you right now" i said why? He saix " im just not feeling it, if i wanted to date i would" i said why did you contact me less then a week ago wanting to go out? He said i didnt.. even though he did. So i said should i just move on or what? He said whatever you want to do. So i said that he was really confusing me and asked him if he had anything more to say before i move on? My messages were turning green so i panicked he blocked me and reacted irrationally. I said " omg did you block me? My messages are not going through. Even texted him on my work phone asking what was up. And called him twice ( please dont judge me i know it is pathetic i never was this type of girl before him) so he replied and said " Ok I'll block you now" then immedietly blocked me. He has never blocked me before since I have met him he will just ghost. Is this ths final discard aka " grand finale? Did i just push him too far? this has upset me so much its hard to even function.

But I still watched these videos; I really needed to learn what they were teaching. After a time I questioned myself; why do American men lick women pussy. And that’s when I reached near to the bottom of the rabbit hole. American is a land of freedom and possible equality. Women are becoming equals to men; and they use their new found powers to belittle men. Now; if a man decides he won’t eat pussy; he will be sitting in the back of a lonely bus. So men are now falling on their feets to please women to avoid the consequences.